Are You Jaded With Dating? Use Escorts Instead!

Most of you reading this article or my blog are probably quite well to do expats or local businessmen in Singapore. As such, our needs and life are simply too different from average, middle class or poor men in Singapore.

If you are a successful entrepreneur or businessman, you will probably be very busy, and have little time or desire for things other than your business. Often times though, you will still want the benefits of having a girlfriend BUT without the emotional hassles and time commitment.

Personally, sometimes I feel really jaded about dating. The solution? Escorts. Increasingly, I think escorts are better. Why? Read on.

One biggest difference between us and men who can afford to date a lot, is that most of us are very busy.  We are ambitious and work driven ENTJ creatures. Therefore, this means that we are very busy individuals who have no time for emotional hassles of women. We need women who respect our time, and there are few women who are like that.

In fact, ever since I moved to Singapore for the past 3-5 years, I have not dated more than one woman (whom I dated for approximately 5 months). I can’t be bothered because my true love is money and making it… not that interested in other things. However, I do have many short term relationships throughout my life. The problem with these short term relationships are that, they are fine when you are poor. But once these women know you’re loaded with cash, these women leech onto you even if you are no longer interested in them. It is ridiculous. They also tend to complain to you about all sorts of things, but you are too busy for them.

But of course, being heterosexual men, we still crave for some female companionship from time to time (from an attractive female).

I have found the only way to get female companionship without the emotional hassle (because I still want a girlfriend experience or a female companion from time to time) is to simply pay for it. I engage professionals – social escorts. With social escorts, there’s really no need to bother with emotional hassles of a regular relationship. You’re probably too busy for that as well and can’t be bothered with a woman who keeps bothering you with useless things that don’t matter.

If you have never engaged a social escort in Singapore before, don’t worry. Getting an escort in Singapore is actually far easier than you think.

There are however tips and tricks to look for the right agency, as many agencies in Singapore are simply prostitution rings pretending to be social escort agencies – this means that if they get busted, you can bet that your transactions with them are going to get dug up too.

Therefore, make sure only to engage professional and legally registered escort agencies – I know only a few agencies in Singapore which are actually legitimate. Here is a popular, registered agency which specializes in Singapore girls for their escorts. I use them.

Although escorts may sound expensive, trust me, it’s FAR more expensive to get a girlfriend or a wife. Let me know your thoughts!

Of course, the above points to date escorts for female companionship while focusing on your business(es) are simply my suggestions. You may or may not necessarily agree with me that dating escorts is better over the long and short term than getting a girlfriend. But that is what I believe in.

Just Date Escorts! Singaporean Girlfriends Can Be Pretty Crazy!

Look at how crazy girlfriends and wives can get! Check out the funny comedic skit above by Night Owl Cinematics.

Do you think Singaporean girlfriends are a good idea if you’re not ready to get married yet?

If you watched the above video, you will quickly realize that many of the ‘crazy’ things that the ‘girlfriends’ say is actually much more common in reality! This is why I personally think unless you want to start a family, why bother dating seriously? In fact, just enjoy life, focus on your career, make a lot of money and date around first when you are young. When you are established and ready to start a family, then find a serious girlfriend. Till then, just get an escort model! If you’re wondering where on earth in Singapore to find a social escort model, just look online, there are tons of them, and one of the most legitimate experiences must come from

Why not consider social escorts instead?

So who or what are escorts? Female social escort models are basically extremely good looking women in Singapore, who are hired to accompany clients to events as a elegant partner as well as hired as a girlfriend and companion for private dates. These are gorgeous looking girls who will be your girlfriend for the hour or two (or more depending on what you order and how much you pay). The best and my personal favourite part about escort girls is that they do not bring emotional hassles to you! How wonderful is that. Additionally, they do not nag at you and feel possessive over you like how typical local Singaporean girlfriends or wives do. What a dream come true!

It is definitely much better to date social escorts in Singapore than to date a local girl (unless you want to start a family already).

5 Singaporean Girl Stereotypes That Are Dead Wrong

Here are some common yet wrong stereotypes about Singaporean girls:

  • Singaporean girls are pretty but bland in personality

    First of all, SG girls are good looking (see how good looking SG girls are here: but are extremely boring. A common misconception about SG girls is that despite most young girls looking very beautiful indeed, that they are extremely bland in terms of their personality. However, if you were to really interact with some local girls, you will definitely quickly realize that is not the case! Some are fiery while others are soft spoken. Some are super enthusiastic while others are super sporty. There are lots of different types of Singaporean girls, but boring is definitely not one of them.

  • Singaporean women are materialistic

    Second of all, Singaporean women are materialistic. Well, the truth is, which city girl in any part of the world is not materialistic? The truth is that, she doesn’t need you to own a Lamborghini to pick her up, but she wouldn’t mind being picked up in a BMW either! Money does matter alright, so this is not just a Singaporean girl stereotype. Especially in Singapore where nearly everything is expensive, it takes a lot of money to live comfortably.

  • All the local SG girls have the exact same personality

    Third of all, many people believe that local girls are all the same in terms of their personality and style. That’s not true. If you are having troubles finding a girl who is very interesting, I highly recommend that you look harder on dating applications, go on a date with a local model through a social escort agency or going to uncommon areas to pick up girls. Perhaps you have always been talking to girls all from a particular circle of influence. Talking to a girl outside of that normal ‘type’ that you go for may make you change your mind about Singaporean ladies!

  • Local girls are always on a diet!

    Fourth of all, there is a strong stereotype that SG girls are always on diets because they all seem so skinny (the young ones). That’s not true. It’s just Chinese genetics which cause SG girls to have high metabolisms and thus remain skinny for a large part of their life without much effort required at all. In fact, many locals I know eat a lot!

  • SG girls are unrealistic and only want ‘perfect’ guys

    Finally, there is a stereotype that Singaporean girls want nothing but the perfect man who’s rich, tall and handsome. That’s true to a certain extent, but most girls don’t end up with a man who’s like that, simply because there are far too few men who are like that. In fact, as long as you have one or two of the above attributes, you will probably be getting more girls than most of the population already!

Picking Up Girls On Singapore’s Streets

Want some tips on picking up Singaporean girls and where to pick up in Singapore?

Watch the following video by ModernMan Academy. They do provide very great tips within the video, so make sure to watch the entire video.

If you are the type who would prefer reading over watching a video, then simply read on to find out the tips mentioned within the videos:

Do not slouch!

– Never slouch when talking to a girl, or anybody for that matter. It’s bad body language. Other than saying you’re not confident, it also tells the girl that you can’t even bother holding yourself respectfully.

Be sincere – really sincere and genuine in your intentions and actions

– Be sincere and authentic in your pick up line. Usually that works best, especially when it comes to picking up random Singaporean girls on the streets of Singapore!

Do not ask for her number immediately upon meeting her

– Don’t ask a girl for a number instantly. Make an emotional connection with the girl first. This does not mean talking to her for long periods of time, as she’ll likely need to go somewhere else or she will be bored. This means knowing how to capture her attention and keep her ears peeled for your next words and keep her eyes on you. Basically, you want to talk to her like how you would to a girl you really enjoy your time.

Be confident and be yourself – not the person you think the girl will like

– Another big tip is that you should just be really confident, not about the portrayal of who you are, but who you really are. This is why you often see handsome men and rich men getting girls easily. Of course, girls in Singapore love handsome and rich men, but the truth is that, their sheer confidence in themselves also lends a big part to their dating success.

If you want shortcuts, then go to social escort agencies

– Of course, if you are just looking for a short term relationship instead, I suggest you just go to social escort agencies instead. Most Singaporean girls won’t want to date a player, while a foreigner willingly would. Therefore, dating a girl the normal way means that she’s usually envisioning marriage with you already! Therefore, if you want a short term fun thing, then just look for social escort model agencies  in Singapore instead.

How To Get A Girlfriend In Singapore – 3 Powerful Tips

man flirting with a Singaporean girl

Learn the 3 tips on how to get a girlfriend in Singapore

If you have always struggled your whole life in getting a Singaporean girlfriend, whether or not you are a local or foreigner to Singapore, then this post is for you to read. The following are 3 powerful tips in helping you get a girlfriend, GF, in Singapore.

Let us find out how to get a girlfriend in Singapore today.

how to get a girlfriend in Singapore

Firstly, understand the psychology and behaviours of local girls in Singapore

First of all, to know how to properly pick up a girl in Singapore, you need to understand the psychology and culture of most girls in Singapore first. Therefore, it’s extremely important to note that most girls in Singapore are relatively conservative, EVEN if they do like the guy who’s trying to pick them up. They will purposely act coy and even be totally silent if they like the guy. This is in direct contrast to women of Caucasian descend. Therefore, don’t be afraid if a woman is suddenly silent if you are trying to pick her up. This is because if the Singaporean lady truly disliked you, she will just snort and walk away.

Secondly, approaching girls while they are in a group, not while they are alone can sometimes work wonders!

Second of all, there are very few Singaporean girls who will hang out alone. This means they almost always are found only in small groups of girls. This means that if you want to pick one of them up, you can forget about waiting until her friends leave. In fact, picking a girl up in Singapore is easier when she’s in a group, as she will automatically become more defensive and protective if you approach her when she is alone. Therefore, while it sounds like weird advice, you should just go in and talk to the group, and pay special attention to the girl you like! If you want more dating tips on approaching Singaporean girls on the streets of Singapore effectively, then read this post.

Thirdly, Singaporean girls are very different from girls living in western countries! Keep this in mind.

Third of all, most Singaporean women are not feminists or career charged women like you see in the US news all the time. In fact, most local ladies in SG are more than happy to be a housewife. Therefore, you need to keep this in mind when talking to a Singaporean lady. What will make an American lady happy may make a Singaporean lady upset. Just take note of these cultural differences and you should do just fine!